Flight Attendant

Flight Attendant

Jordan

Toronto, ON

Female, 28

Space Waitress, Trolley Dolly, Stewardess...everyone has their own term for us. We are the baby-sitters, life-savers, servers, cleaners and all-around problem solvers for any and every in-flight issue. Sometimes we get a bad rep for being apathetic and miserable despite having what looks like a glamorous job, so here's a peek into the gritty details beneath the shiny surface to explain why the job - though incredible in lots of ways - is more than just snappy uniforms and matching luggage.

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Last Answer on August 26, 2013

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I am 40+ and reentering the workforce....sounds like FA salary will be tough to live on. I make a ton waitressing but want a career. Is it possible to be an FA as well as work part time doing something else ?

Asked by East Coast Angel about 13 years ago

If the restaurant where you waitress is ok with it, I would recommend holding onto that gig!  It's so easy to pick up a shift here and there, around your flying schedule.  I sometimes think I should have kept my serving job as well, but when push comes to shove I'll always pick days off over money! 

I answered a similar question in a bit more detail above:

"I just got hired as a FA and i have not yet started training. I have been reading a lot of blogs and it looks like other FA aren't able to pick up as much hours as they want. My question is : what types of side jobs can we do to make ends meet?"

Check it out!

Can a boy with a mole (naevi) on his face apply for flight steward, though the mole is very small.

Asked by Ovais Shah about 13 years ago

Of course!  Hey, if God put it there, who is an employer to complain?  Now if you had a bunch of facial tattoos, that would be another story... 

Hi;
My question today is " What happens when you don't pass your IOD exam after graduating? Do you get another opportunity to make up for it or is that it you get the boot?"

Asked by Yuli about 13 years ago

Well I hate to say this but... I have no idea what an IOD exam is!  I asked some co-workers and they were as perplexed as I am.  Give me a hint and I'll see if I can dig up any answers for you :)

I have a telephone interview pretty soon with an American airline. What types of questions should I be expected to answer?

Asked by Crossingfinger almost 13 years ago

Well I was a little late in getting back to you so it could be that you've already had the interview (sorry!) but if not, I can pass along what I was asked during my interview.  Apart from the general job-interview questions (Why do you want to work here?  What would make you an asset to the company?  What are your strengths, and areas that need improvement?), the focus was primarily on my customer service skills.  I remember being asked to describe a situation where a customer was unhappy and how I redeemed their experience, and what I like about being in customer service.  

My interview stages were a bit different from yours, since I had a group interview with about 30 other hopefuls, and then a one-on-one interview.  The only phone interview I had was a language test (which I bombed).  During the group interview they observed how we interacted with one another while working together on a simple assignment, (tip: always follow the rules they give you even if they seem pointless!) and then took turns speaking in front of each other (I had 60 seconds to talk about my favourite food.  Piece of cake.  Or should I say, piece of chocolate! mmm), to see how comfortable we were being in the spotlight.  

I think as long as you have some good customer service stories in your back pocket, and showcase how welcoming and confident you are (good attributes for an FA!) you'll knock their socks off.  Good luck!

I am a US based flight attendant with a major airline. I have been flying for over 19 years. I have found your websit very interesting and accurate. I am willing to help with any territory that you are unfamiliar with.

Asked by Robin about 13 years ago

Phew!  Thank you for not publicly denouncing me :) I've been flying a fraction of that amount of time so it's encouraging to know I'm not totally off base with my answers!  Try following the Contact link at the bottom of the page to send the Jobster admin your contact info and they can forward it to me.  I'd appreciate getting a second opinion on things from time to time! 

Would most flight attenants welcome an invite to dinner and a chance to see the city they are staying in get away from the hotel and the crew for a bit? Or is that to risky?

Asked by Ray almost 13 years ago

Well, getting away from the hotel and crew is one thing, but accepting an invite to dinner is something else entirely.  It's not uncommon for crews to split up, particularly in places where there's lots to do so it's easy to make plans in advance (for example, Las Vegas - some FAs go for the shopping, others for the gambling, some for buffets and some for clubs.  Getting the whole crew to agree on a game plan is nearly impossible there).  So yes, definitely flight attendants welcome the chance to get out of the hotel, get some fresh air (after all, they've been on a metal tube all day!) and grab a bite to eat. 

I think it's really nice of you to want to take someone out and show them the city, especially since having a local as your guide is the best way to explore a new place.  I think whether or not they accept will depend on

a) your approach - if you're open to hanging out with the crew as a group that'll be 'safer', also don't pry into which hotel they're staying at.  Let the FA divulge that information if and when they want to.

b) the personality of the FA - if they're single and ready to mingle they're more likely to say, "sure, why not?", and

c) the location.  Some destinations airlines fly to are at a higher risk for crime so crews tend to stick together and not leave the hotel as often in those places.  

If you want to go for it I give you my blessing!  I myself have never (intentionally) met up with a passenger after a flight but I know others who have.  I hope it works out for you!

How do you decide how much to pack when traveling (as far as clothes, toiletries, etc.)? And what are some necessities? Also, do FA's only take carry-ons or do they check luggage also?

Asked by GGM almost 13 years ago

Let me tell you, I still get it wrong sometimes.  Just last month I was with a crew on what was originally a 2-day pairing, but our crew scheduling department was in a bind and needed a crew to operate down to Barbados and spend 2 days there before working the flight home.  Well twist my arm, I guess I'll get paid to go suntan on the beach!  Anyway, all of us only had one outfit with us (thankfully I had my bikini, never leave home without it!) and by the end of the four days we were all so sick of looking at each other and our recycled outfits that I still haven't taken that dress out of the closet since I got home.  

The point is, you never know where you might end up during a last minute schedule change.  In the summer it's not too problematic, a pair of flip flops, some shorts and a T and sunglasses will pretty much be appropriate no matter where you end up.  In the winter though, you just learn to pack more or suffer the consequences.  I bought a pair of ankle boots that can easily transition from city streets to snowy sidewalks, and I have been known to bring a larger suitcase just so I could have my long, down winter coat with me in New Brunswick (and was the envy of all my shivering crewmates in their work coat)!

Thankfully crew are, for the most part, exempt from the liquids and gels ban that so many governments have adopted so we can freely transport our makeup, and lotions and potions (and booze!) wherever we please.  We don't have to check our luggage either, although I have seen crews from other airlines with longer pairings check additional suitcases.  FAs at my airline typically bring three bags - a lunch kit (like a mini cooler bag), a suitcase, and a "flight bag", which can carry laptops and our manual.  

Here are my neccessities:

swimsuit (such a pain to buy if you forget it and then end up spending the night in Cancun unexpectedly!)

pyjamas (I used to sleep in the buff but how am I gonna feel if the hotel fire alarm goes off in the middle of the night?  Huddling in the nude with my co-workers and a hundred other strangers?  No thanks.)

make-up (I'm not high-maintenance but c'mon)

phone + charger

at least one comfy change of clothes, ie: yoga pants and a long-sleeved T or jeans and a sweater so that at the very least I can join the crew for dinner in the hotel restaurant

flip flops and, in the summer, a sundress

If you forget some of the essentials you can usually ask the front desk for things like a charger or toothpaste.  I've even borrowed clothes from another FA who I had met about 2 hours earlier.  It's trial and error, but usually I get it right!