Flight Attendant

Flight Attendant

Jordan

Toronto, ON

Female, 28

Space Waitress, Trolley Dolly, Stewardess...everyone has their own term for us. We are the baby-sitters, life-savers, servers, cleaners and all-around problem solvers for any and every in-flight issue. Sometimes we get a bad rep for being apathetic and miserable despite having what looks like a glamorous job, so here's a peek into the gritty details beneath the shiny surface to explain why the job - though incredible in lots of ways - is more than just snappy uniforms and matching luggage.

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Last Answer on August 26, 2013

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I feel pretty embarrass when I ask for water so many time, do you have any suggestion that what i should do or can i bring my own water bottle to ask your guys to fill in at first place ? Thanks.

Asked by Daniel about 12 years ago

It is SO easy to get dehydrated on a plane, so I totally get it!  I have no problem filling water bottles for guests provided we have enough water on board to complete service.  What you can also do is bring an empty bottle through security and fill it up at a water fountain in the airport, or buy one in an airport store right before you board.  We even sell bottles of water on the plane for people who know they'll want more than just one glass, but whatever you choose please don't feel bad for asking for water!  If you ask politely for an extra glass, or to have your bottle filled, I can't see why the crew would say no. 

Do you recommend working as a flight attendant temporarily? Say, a year or less, while trying to find another job?

Asked by nate about 12 years ago

Well, the airlines won't thank me for saying so, but sure!  It's a great experience to try and say that you've done it.  But don't blame me if you say you'll stay for a year and end up staying ten.  I see it All the time.  It's just an addictive lifestyle!  

Just be prepared that it can be quite a drawn out ordeal to get hired (sometimes 3 interviews and, in my case, a 7 month wait until a training slot became available) and the training is no joke.  It's about a month long with a huge amount of information being thrown at you, and roughly 1/3 of that month will start with a pop quiz first thing in the morning.  It might be hard to be motivated to get through training if you only plan to stay for a year and you're not that passionate about it.  But like I said, you may end up liking it more than you expected, in which case it's a great investment of your time!

Hi;
My question today is " What happens when you don't pass your IOD exam after graduating? Do you get another opportunity to make up for it or is that it you get the boot?"

Asked by Yuli about 12 years ago

Well I hate to say this but... I have no idea what an IOD exam is!  I asked some co-workers and they were as perplexed as I am.  Give me a hint and I'll see if I can dig up any answers for you :)

Starting out as an FA, are you allowed to take long periods of time off from work? Say maybe 2 or 3 weeks?

Asked by Savannah over 12 years ago

Sure!  You have a few options:

- use some vacation days.  At my airline vacation blocks are usually requested and assigned a year in advance, so people hired throughout the year are forced to choose from whichever time slots are leftover.  It may not be what you were hoping for, but you can also trade with someone else who may suddenly need the vacation block that you have.

- request those days off in your monthly bid.  It's not unusual for me to have 5 days off in a row even if I haven't asked for it because FAs get about 13-16 days off each month.  A lot of people I work with who commute from other countries (yes it happens - I think they're crazy but they make it work!) will request all their days off at the end of one month, and at the beginning of the next month.  This creates a 4 weeks on, 4 weeks off schedule that would make me sick but totally works for some!

- drop or trade shifts over the weeks that you are interested in getting off, and make up the time either the prior month, or the month after.  Dropping too many shifts and never making up the time might get you noticed, but doing it here and there is no big deal.

Airlines that create schedules based on seniority make trading shifts and getting days off a bit harder, but getting two weeks off should not be impossible.

Would most flight attenants welcome an invite to dinner and a chance to see the city they are staying in get away from the hotel and the crew for a bit? Or is that to risky?

Asked by Ray about 12 years ago

Well, getting away from the hotel and crew is one thing, but accepting an invite to dinner is something else entirely.  It's not uncommon for crews to split up, particularly in places where there's lots to do so it's easy to make plans in advance (for example, Las Vegas - some FAs go for the shopping, others for the gambling, some for buffets and some for clubs.  Getting the whole crew to agree on a game plan is nearly impossible there).  So yes, definitely flight attendants welcome the chance to get out of the hotel, get some fresh air (after all, they've been on a metal tube all day!) and grab a bite to eat. 

I think it's really nice of you to want to take someone out and show them the city, especially since having a local as your guide is the best way to explore a new place.  I think whether or not they accept will depend on

a) your approach - if you're open to hanging out with the crew as a group that'll be 'safer', also don't pry into which hotel they're staying at.  Let the FA divulge that information if and when they want to.

b) the personality of the FA - if they're single and ready to mingle they're more likely to say, "sure, why not?", and

c) the location.  Some destinations airlines fly to are at a higher risk for crime so crews tend to stick together and not leave the hotel as often in those places.  

If you want to go for it I give you my blessing!  I myself have never (intentionally) met up with a passenger after a flight but I know others who have.  I hope it works out for you!

i have completed my airlines course in franfinn institute in air hostess training in india but am in malaysia now & where can i find a ailine job in malaysia & am not a malaysian am a indian

Asked by maria crystal over 12 years ago

Congratulations on finishing your course!

The airline industry can be highly competitive and hard to crack, so if you're determined to become a flight attendant just keep applying to any airline you can.  If you are willing to relocate, it will give you far more opportunities.  Don't let being a foreigner stop you from applying - as long as you have a valid passport and no criminal record you are off to a good start!  Once you have secured a job you can begin the process of getting a work visa.  Some countries may be stricter than others, but I have co-workers who don't have Canadian passports and they still got hired!  Visit the websites of any airline that interests you and check out their careers page, or check out http://www.flightattendantcareer.com for worldwide selection.

In the meantime, keep your ears open for job opportunities at the nearest airport.  Becoming a customer service agent for an airline will give you an inside scoop about which airlines are hiring for the inflight department, and you'll get some experience in the industry to add to your resume. 

I hope you find something!

how much time you can be at home? with your friends, family...? you cant be always working, must be at home...

Asked by lisa about 12 years ago

The flight attendant schedule works out to be about half the month off.  In Canada it's a requirement to be scheduled at least 13 days off a month, but usually I'll get a few more than that.  So really, we're home more often than not, and we get more days off than the average 9 to 5-er, but we may end up working all weekends one month which makes it feel like we don't see friends as often.  Most FAs I work with who are parents agree that they spend more time with their kids now than they did at their previous job, whether it was an office job or other shift work.  You just have to be prepared to have your days off in chunks, so you may not see your spouse or kids for a week, but then you could have 9 days off in a row!  It's unpredictable, but I still prefer it to the alternative!