Flirting/Relationship Coach

Flirting/Relationship Coach

Fran Greene

Commack, NY

Female, 0

Love is a many-splendored thing, and I should know: as a Flirting, Dating, and Relationship Coach, I enhance the social lives of singles & the relationships of couples. I previously served as Match.com’s Director of Flirting, and I’ve appeared on such shows as The Today Show and Bill O’Reilly. I recently released The Flirting Bible and I’ve also been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and Cosmopolitan. Ask me anything!

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Last Answer on November 12, 2015

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What percentage of your clientele are male vs. female?

Asked by Kev over 14 years ago

60% female and 40% male

Is there ever a point with certain clients where you realize the problems are beyond your expertise and they need to see a therapist or psychiatrist?

Asked by DrLuv over 14 years ago

I am a licensed clinical social worker (therapist) as well as a Flirting, Dating and Relationship Coach. What sometimes happens is that a client comes in for coaching or online dating advice and the dating stuff goes on hold so other issues can take priority. Some of my clients have seen a psychiatrist and are being treated with medication.

If I'm continually making eye contact with cute guy, and I catch him doing the same with me, but nothing's "happening", what should I do?

Asked by Misty1 over 14 years ago

How great is that? He is giving you the green light to make a move. So Misty, stand up tall, walk over, smile, look into his baby blues or big brown eyes, extend your hand and introduce yourself. The rest will be history!

What does "Director of Flirting" mean? What did that match.com job entail? Sounds great!

Asked by Talia over 14 years ago

As the Director of Flirting I had a column called "Frankly Fran", very similar to jobstr.com. I was asked questions as to how to survive online dating, flirting tips, how to start a conversation, what are the best places to meet, how do you know when someone likes you, how to go on after a breakup, are office romances okay, when is it okay to have sex, etc, etc. I also was a spokesperson for Match and was interviewed on radio, TV, newspapers and magazines. It was fabulous! Loved it.

What do you think of sending women drinks across the bar as a way of making the first move? Smart or stupid?

Asked by masterofnone over 14 years ago

Sending a drink to a woman across the bar is a smart way to get her attention. It could get expensive, though, so first engage in some eye contact and see if she looks your way. How about sending a note along with the drink so she will really be wowed? Go for it.

What advice do you give to married women if they are considering having an affair?
Does that come up in your line of work often?

Asked by hotmama over 14 years ago

It has not come up with any of my married woman clients. Having a cheating spouse has been completely devastating and heartbreaking for my divorced woman clients. My advice to a woman who is considering an affair would be to either work on the marriage or pursue a divorce. Having an affair does not make the troubled relationship better and always causes pain for the spouse that is being cheated on.

I'm kind of over bars clubs etc as a place to meet guys - what less obvious places would you recommend for meeting decent guys?

Asked by brookeNYC over 14 years ago

The best place to meet guys is ... everywhere! Be open, chatty, and always look wherever you are. Let everyone know that you are in the dating market. That means everyone! Your friends, family, neighbors, hairstylist, mechanic, letter carrier, dentist, accountant etc etc. You can even be a bit outrageous and say that you're offering a cruise to whomever introduces you to the love of your life! Here's a short list of where to meet a quality guy: high school and college reunions, volunteering, classes, the gym, online dating services, singles events, jury duty, and houses of worship.