Flirting/Relationship Coach

Just over 2 years ago my wife cheated on me with a friend. We did a bible study called The love Dare together after to try and save the relationship. Our communication better but I still struggle with what she did. What can I do to help myself?

Asked by techie4lyfe over 10 years ago

Hi Still Struggling:Betrayal is very tough to overcome, bit it is possible and many couples do survive an affair and actually have a better relationship. I am not familiar with the Love Dare program, but I am glad that your communication is better. Couples counseling with an experienced professional is essential to figure out what the difficulties are in the relationship and strategies. to overcome them without straying. You might also want to consider individual therapy for yourself. Wishing you a 2015 that is filled with love and trust.

What does it mean if a girl sometimes says hi, and other times ignores me? (I'm 14.)

Asked by 123 about 11 years ago

Hi 123:

It could mean  that the girl  is testing the waters to see  if you like her.  Next time you see her, you say hi  and she will be so happy that you noticed her.

I work in a restaurant with a guy who flirts by tickling/winking/sexual innuendos/getting REAL close-pressed up behind me. I know he has a girlfriend but how can I reciprocate his flirting in a playful touchy feely way without seeming silly? Thanks

Asked by Flirtless over 10 years ago

Not sure if you should go there!! It does not sound like he is flirting, it sounds more like he wants a hook up. If he has a girlfriend, I would back off. You can be friendly and chatty but that's about it.There are so many other fish in the sea for you. So go flirt with someone else who catches your eye. :)

I'm a high school boy. There's someone that I'm interested in being closer too (even if it's just as friends or maybe more). She talks to me occasionally. I'm not the talkative type. How should I go about getting closer?

Asked by ABC about 10 years ago

Great Question!! For starters, how about finding out what she likes to do. Once you know what she likes , you can suggest that you do it together. When you do an activity together it is often easier to talk because you now have something in common. It could be bike riding, skateboarding, going to a movie, helping her with something school related Talking to girls can be a scary thing, practice makes perfect. :)

I "met" this girl at a summer program (for teens) but I barely had any interaction in the two weeks. I later found the persons Instagram and when I followed she followed back (doesn't mean she remembers me) continued...

Asked by Victor over 10 years ago

So I work in a restaurant with this really hot guy who flirts with me. A lot! It's mostly discreet physical flirting, as there's always people, be it customers or colleagues near. I'm really shy and not really bold enough/know what to do or say back.

Asked by The colleague over 10 years ago

To the shy colleague:How lucky are you that this adorable guy is letting you know that he is interested in you!!So, what should you do? Here are a few suggestions. How about if you slipped him a note with your phone number telling him you would love to get together or slipped him a note asking him for his phone number. That would be the really bold approach. Or you could casually say, let's have coffee after we get off work, and see how he responds. You could also ask him for help with something ( even if you don't really need the help) so you could spend some time with him after work. Let me know how you do. Remember, life is not a dress rehearsal. Take a deep breath and go for it.

I met my husband on Match.com. He was a psychopath and ruined my life. It's been 7 years since my divorce and I have absolutely no desire to date anyone ever again. Do you know much about the devastating and lasting effects of toxic relationships?

Asked by mcmjuly over 10 years ago

Hi mcmjuly:Yes, I do know about how painful and devastating a toxic relationship can have. It absolutely chips away at your self esteem. Would you like to have a wonderful relationship with a partner who truly loves and values you? If so, dating is your only option. Have you worked with a therapist who could help you move on? If you are interested in working with me you can email me at FranGreeneLCSW at gmail.com. Wishing you a love filled 2015