Flight Attendant

Flight Attendant

Jordan

Toronto, ON

Female, 28

Space Waitress, Trolley Dolly, Stewardess...everyone has their own term for us. We are the baby-sitters, life-savers, servers, cleaners and all-around problem solvers for any and every in-flight issue. Sometimes we get a bad rep for being apathetic and miserable despite having what looks like a glamorous job, so here's a peek into the gritty details beneath the shiny surface to explain why the job - though incredible in lots of ways - is more than just snappy uniforms and matching luggage.

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Last Answer on August 26, 2013

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I recently was extended an offer to become a FA for a mainline airline in the US. I am nervous about having to move to a new city in a short period of time following training. Any advice on this major transition? Thanks in advance!

Asked by Matty007 almost 11 years ago

Congrats on the offer!

Definitely check out the answer I offered to the previous question:

"I'm pursuing a Flight Attendant career, the only concern I have is, if and when, for any reason, I get relocated, the problem isn't getting relocated, as much as, what do I do, live in motels until I can find a place to live close to the airport?"

So many pilots and FAs commute (ie: fly) to work, it proves that just because a position is based in a certain city, it doesn't necessarily mean you have to live there.  Always ask for suggestions from other co-workers and your trainers, but it IS possible to happily commute, despite what naysayers may have you believe.

A lot of FAs will move a couple times before they find something right for them.  If you're a homeowner or have kids or a spouse to uproot, of course moving will require a lot of consideration.  The best way to make an informed decision about where you want to live, is to work at the airline for a while to get a sense of what works and what doesn't for commuters and locals alike.  If it's at all possible, I'd recommend finding a temporary living situation in the new city (a rental, or a friend/co-worker's spare room) until you know more about the work, and what kind of schedule you'll be given, so that you can plan accordingly. 

Your new co-workers will be an invaluable resource when trying to decide where to live.  Moving can be intimidating, but your fellow crew members will have lots of suggestions (maybe conflicting!) about which neighbourhoods are best to look in, renting vs owning, driving vs transit, etc.  When I began training, I requested the emails of the other new hires that would be in my class, so we could swap advice about finding places to stay and car rental.  It was informative, helped calm my nerves, and even landed me a roommate. 

You've got some tough decisions ahead but you can always change your mind if what you've decided isn't working out.  Good luck!

Is there a particular airline you would recommend working for? You are so incredibly helpful!

Asked by Keely about 11 years ago

This is a tough question.  I would recommend the airline I currently work for but I am trying to retain a bit of anonymity so I'll just say that its business model is based on that of Southwest's, and so I would probably recommend them even though I can't remember ever flying with them!  They consistently land in the top employers list of the US and likewise, my airline has been rated one of the best companies to work for in Canada, so I think they have a good thing going;  Namely, taking care of their employees (ie health benefits, competitive salaries, opportunities to buy shares within the company) so that they, in turn, can pass on those good vibes to the passengers. 

Beyond that however, your guess is as good as mine!  I think a lot of flight attendants harbour those same visions of grandeur that Gwyneth Paltrow's character in A View from the Top had, about being a "first class, international" FA.  Airlines like Cathay Pacific, Emirates, Air New Zealand and Virgin Atlantic for example, have a reputation for being luxurious and elite, and that appeals to potential employees as much as it does to travelers.  If you're unattached and willing to relocate, have exquisite customer service skills and a second or third language on hand then by all means, have at her!  Go fly with the pros so the rest of us can live vicariously through you!  But be warned that the grass always looks greener on the other side.  Sometimes it's hard to appreciate what you have when you compare yourself to crew from another airline.

I guess you'll have to decide what you're looking for in a career in the airline industry - long term stability or just something to try for a year or two?  The opportunity to travel all over the world or a job with travel perks, but still local enough to juggle family life?  Tax breaks overseas, or a homegrown company?  Some FAs work for several airlines before they find their fit, so get out there and test the waters!

Forgive me for asking so many questions. I'm about to begin flight attendant training and I'd like to know if there's anything about the particular aircraft that the airline will be using that a trainee flight attendant should expect to be tested on

Asked by Donny almost 11 years ago

Oh lots!  But fear not, they will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know.  It's a steep learning curve, and if, like me, you're going into your training with no prior knowledge of aviation it can be enough to make your head spin.  Some of the things you'll be tested on include:

emergency exits - where they are and how to open them

emergency equipment - where they're located, how to stow them, how to ensure they're in working order, and use them

those are the two big things (and believe me they take up a Huge chunk of training time) but other things you'll need to know is the location and proper operation of service equipment, the number of seats/passengers per plane, who's responsible for which safety checks, and how to write up broken equipment.

I'm lucky, at my airline all the aircrafts are Boeing 737s so there isn't much variation between one aircraft and another.  Other airlines have multiple types of aircraft and some FAs will only be qualified to work on certain aircraft, depending on what their training covers.  But like I said, your inflight training provided by the airline will go into detail about each of these areas, and give you all the material you need to become an expert on your aircraft cabin!  Good luck!

Hi I want to Be A FA , and I was wondering , When your flight stops some where new do you pay for the hotel out of your pocket , or does the Airline pay , for each place you have to stay ,

Asked by Ruby c. almost 11 years ago

Hey there!  I get asked this question a lot and I can happily say that the airline takes care of that for you!  You get your own room for every city you stay in, usually the whole crew will stay at the same hotel, and transportation to and from the airport is also pre-arranged.  Most hotels selected by airlines have certain amenities as well, ie: a fitness centre, access to a crew room (a room with a fridge and microwave if they aren't in your room already), a restaurant either on the premises or very close-by, and free wi-fi.  And if you're Really lucky and spending a night (or even a week at some airlines!) in a Carribbean locale, you'll end up at an all-inclusive!  So. Much. Fun. 

What was it like when you first became a FA? How old were you? Wages, experiences, stories?

Asked by Savannah almost 11 years ago

I was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar, that much is true... 

I really was.  The money as a server was decent but my wagers became way more stable once I got hired as a flight attendant, and instead of handfuls of tips I was getting ~$750 paycheques every two weeks (it's not huge, but I'm a girl of simple tastes), plus flight and health benefits. 

My training lasted a month and when the time came for my first pairing I was a nervous wreck.  I had to commute in for work on a flight the night before and I felt totally overwhelmed trying to remember everything to pack.  Thankfully I ended up having a fantastic crew - who pranked me endlessly by hiding in the overhead bins to scare me and stuffing random things into my luggage, but also surprised me with champagne and cake - and the senior flight attendant who was supervising me was approachable and helfpul, and also knocked a couple bad work habits out of me before they had time to even form.

I confess when she took me upstairs after our last flight to officially check me off and seal my fate as an FA I started crying!  All the stress of the previous month - a gruelling amount of training, endless exams, meeting so many new people - just burst out of me in a wave of relief.  I'm not sure which of us was more shocked!  Immediatey after being officially signed off I hopped on a plane to LA to reward myself and celebrate my birthday which was two days away.

The following months were filled with all the excitement and uncertainty of a new job.  I got lost in a couple airports trying to find the crew bypass entrances, I found it really hard to keep up the pace on short flights, I met new people every time I showed up at the gate for work... it was exhausting - and so much fun!  It was almost a year before I snagged my first international layover (St. Lucia!) but in the meantime I got to know my own country so much better. 

I still get excited about my job four years later; you never know who'll you'll meet or where you'll end up.  I have a lot more confidence in my job now, and sure sometimes I roll my eyes at my schedule when I get another layover in the same old place, but I still get a thrill when I steal a moment by the window and watch the world go by!

Do have to have all 5 senses to become a flight attendant?

Asked by Tracy about 11 years ago

I confess I did a double take when I first read this question, I thought it was sarcasm at first but then it really gave me some food for thought!

The quick answer is yes, that is, sight and hearing are very important to the job and will be tested before you can proceed with training.  Every FA must undergo medical screening, and though the methods vary from doctor to doctor, an eye exam and hearing test will be included.  My own screening wasn't very stressful - the hearing test consisted of the doctor moving from one corner of the room to another, whispering the names of different cities in our flight network, and I had to repeat them back to her.  It felt kinda silly.

The ironic thing is that FAs who have been flying a long time, especially on turbo-prop planes that are extremely loud, have terrible hearing from all the ambient noise bombarding their ears day in and day out.  Just sayin'.

I've never worked with someone sporting hearing aids, but I did just work with a flight attendant who was born blind in one eye yet still had the doctor's approval to fly.  The standards are definitely not as strict as they are for pilots (for example, you can be colour blind and still be an FA) but you do need to pass basic tests for sight and hearing.

Smell is important too, in fact last week a flight I was on had to turn around and head back to the departure city because of an acrid burnt-plastic smell that manifested in the cabin.  We use our senses all the time to alert us to a potential emergency situation.  Happily, we landed and all got home safely!

I hope this answered your question!

How would you describe the perfect flyer (customer) and what would that person have to do to make your job easier?

Asked by DV about 11 years ago

A perfect passenger is usually an invisible one!  They board with ease, they don't have a million carry-ons, they respect the seatbelt sign, they are polite when I come through with service, and they may even give me a smile as they deplane.  I know that doesn't sound very exciting, but it's also not that hard to be a great traveller!  I like to tell myself that I was this kind of customer before I became an FA but that could be wishful thinking.

I also enjoy people who chit chat and joke around with me, or ask me questions, because I love to help out and interact with guests one on one, it makes my day a lot more interesting - but don't feel obligated if that's not your style!

And since you asked, please don't stand in the aisles when I'm doing service!  I get it, when nature calls there's nothing we can do about it, but it is a pain moving my cart up and down the length of the plane so people can use the bathroom and then get back to their seats.  I'm used to it, but it would make my job easier if people could time their bathroom breaks around our service rather than during!  A girl can dream, can't she?

Thanks for asking!