Flight Attendant

Flight Attendant

Jordan

Toronto, ON

Female, 28

Space Waitress, Trolley Dolly, Stewardess...everyone has their own term for us. We are the baby-sitters, life-savers, servers, cleaners and all-around problem solvers for any and every in-flight issue. Sometimes we get a bad rep for being apathetic and miserable despite having what looks like a glamorous job, so here's a peek into the gritty details beneath the shiny surface to explain why the job - though incredible in lots of ways - is more than just snappy uniforms and matching luggage.

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Last Answer on August 26, 2013

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When flying internationally, how long does the crew stay abroad before coming back? Does that plane/crew fly to a destination with one set of travellers and fly back to "point A" with all new returning travllers?

Asked by Blaize about 11 years ago

Good question - the FAA and Transport Canada are always examining the rules surrounding crew rest and tightening up the restrictions in order to mitigate the risk caused by fatigue.  Those signs you see on long stretches of highway are right - fatigue is deadly!  It's a pretty serious issue for commercial air carriers. 

Currently in the US, once a crew has finished their flights for the day - regardless of how many hours it amounts to - they are entitled to a minimum 10 hours of undisturbed rest, not including the transportation time to and from the hotel.  Of course many layovers are longer than 10 hours (up to 48 at my airline) and that seems to be determined by the flight schedules.  If the airline only operates one flight a week to and from a certain city, and the distance is too long for a single crew to do in one day (ie a return trip would exceed 14 hours) the inbound crew will stay for a full week, until the next flight outbound.  Pretty sweet if you get stuck somewhere with a beach!

These rules are changing though, and getting stricter all the time.  So it will be more common for crews to require more rest according to how many time zones they've crossed that day.  Also, airlines will have to dissuade their employees from commuting, since it's not uncommon for crew to fly in from another state or province before beginning their shift, but that soon may be prohibited just to reduce potential fatigue - a cause of many air incidents and accidents. 

I do a lot of 'one days', which means I'll fly to a city with one set of travellers like you mentioned, and scoop up a new set for the return segment.  It's funny when the destination is a sun spot like the Caribbean, and all the passengers going down are pale and eager to party, and on the return flight the guests are sunburnt, peeling, and jonesing for water and a pillow.  I guess those are the signs of a good week!

Hi there;
My questions is how to you congratulate a person graduating for flight attendant? My sister is graduating soon and I wanted to surprise her with a party but I really dont know how to put it in writting in the invitacions. Please help!

Asked by Yuli almost 11 years ago

Oh that's so sweet! I'm not sure there's any one way to phrase it but anything along the lines of "completed inflight training" or even just "graduated" would be appropriate, I think.  

If you wanted to do something kind of cute though you could model the invititations after boarding passes or a customs card and give the information that way. The time and place of the party could be the Destination and Departure Time, and then "celebrating So-and-So's graduation from Flight Attendant school" or, "my sister is taking flight in a new career!" could be the Reason for Travel. Just an idea (and a cheesy one at that), but have fun with it!

i hope your sister lands a great job and enjoys her new gig! Send her my congratulations :)

I'm 6'7", and can't afford to fly first class. So when I'm in coach, if the passenger in front of me goes into full recline, it's pure hell. Do I have any rights to get that passenger to bring his seat forward? Or am I at his mercy?

Asked by Bunyan, Jr. about 11 years ago

Bunyan Jr, cute ;)

Well please don't hate the messenger but I have yet to come across any rules or rights that can help you out.  With the exception of taxi, take-off and landing, anyone can recline their seatback whenever they feel like it.  My advice to you is, recline your own seat for the extra space, and if at all possible, try to reserve a seat in the emergency exit row!  There will usually be an extra fee attached to selecting a seat in advance but it'll cost way less than first class and that thirty or so bucks could translate into several extra inches of legroom depending on the aircraft model. 

If you really can't spare the money, just be sure to check in online ASAP (usually 24 hours before departure) to see if any seats in the emergency exit or bulkhead rows are still available.  I work a lot of flights where those seats are still empty after takeoff.  Failing that, charm the pants off the customer service agents who check you in and oversee boarding.  They can pull more strings when it comes to seat assignments than flight attendants.  Good luck!

I turn 18 in three months and I want to be a flight attendant more than ever. I've watched all the videos and I grAduate in may 2013. I'm a manager at a store for 2 years now I love people. I live in Louisiana where do I start? How do I get going?

Asked by Alisha about 11 years ago

I admire your passion! Having management and customer service skills is a great asset, especially for someone so young. Airlines want crew members who are punctual, professional, and level-headed. And of course, being a people person is ideal, so you're off to a good start! My first question is, are you willing to move? I'm not very familiar with the industry in Louisiana but most major US airlines are based in Atlanta, Dallas, and NYC to name a few. A LOT of cabin crew relocate for the job, pilots included, it's almost a requirement unless you're lucky enough to have a major airline based in your backyard. If you're feeling very adventurous you could even look overseas for a job, since fluency in English is an asset in some countries. Speaking of languages, if you can speak a second language - any language - it always helps! Before my training, I found a girl (via craigslist) to help me practice my French conversational skills. I'm still far from fluent, but have more confidence speaking French on the plane as a result. Studying another language will definitely give you an edge over the competition, and there are a lot of materials available at bookstores and libraries, and even apps to help you expand your knowledge. To be honest, I have co-workers who took college courses in tourism and hospitality, and even specific inflight training classes, and it didn't help them too much when it came to the hiring process. Each airline will give you the training you need and don't require you to have it at the time you apply, so don't spend your time and money there. My advice to you is to keep checking the websites of the airlines that interest you for when they have job openings, and apply! You might have to start in a location that doesn't excite you, and you'll be at the bottom of the seniority food chain (which means lots of on-call shifts and crummy layovers) but it'll get your foot in the door. You might even consider working as a customer service agent in the airport where you live, so that you can meet people in the industry and get hired internally when the cabin crew position becomes available. It doesn't always work, but I'd say about 5-10% of the FAs I work with were once airport staff. I hope that helps, good luck!

Hi,I am in training and they told us,that because of pressure in cabin we become bigger esp. legs, belly. I am affraid of it, is it true?Is it only for/after flight or permanent? My job is only for summer,i dont want to be bigger because of 3 months

Asked by Andreea about 11 years ago

Yes it is true, but I found people exaggerated how bad it would be. I don't really notice it so much, but some FA's order their uniforms in a size up from what they typically wear just to stay comfortable through the ups and downs. I have been flying for a few years and haven't experienced anything unpleasant or long-lasting - I just look a bit bloated after a long day, but feel fine in the morning! My good friend notices changes primarily in her feet - in the morning her shoes fit but by the end of a day spent in the air they feel loose, we can't figure out why. 

My two pieces of advice are this - eat healthy! Drink lots of water on the plane and avoid foods high in sodium (no ramen noodles no matter how tasty they are!) and avoid beans and legumes... no need to encourage bloating!

Also, invest in a pair of high quality compression tights or socks. Ask your doctor for a prescription for them, and most airline health plans will reimburse you for a portion or all of the cost (they are expensive!)

Honestly though, if you're only flying for 3 months I wouldn't worry about it, good luck!

Are you allowed to bring a product (legal of course) and sell it locally?

Asked by Yan almost 11 years ago

Ha ha, I admire your resourcefullness but the simple answer is not really.  We have to pass through customs whenever we leave Canada, just like all our passengers, and I swear sometimes the customs officers are harder on us than anyone else.  If we purchase anything for re-sale we have to declare it and pay duty on it.  I'm sure if you did it once or twice it could go under the radar, but the airline would certainly frown upon it if you made it a habit and word got out. 

The gossip we hear online is always the juicy stuff - ie people getting fired for smuggling in illegal drugs - so I'm no expert on what happens if you start a side business bringing in legal foreign goods, but I can assure you that I never lie on a customs form about how much money I've spent outside the country because those customs guards live to catch you!  I've been asked to declare goods for co-workers when they spent more than the legal limit within the time frame allotted and absolutely refused.  It's always better to declare your goods than to get caught in a lie and lose your job over it.  Airlines won't have your back if you've been trying to pull the wool over the government's eyes!

I am doing a reserach paper on flight attendants. I would greatly appreciate if you could answer some of my questions. Do you enjoy your job and at times can it be stressful? How would you describe s typical week/day in this position?

Asked by Leticia about 11 years ago

I really enjoy my job! When it comes down to it, it's a customer service job, and I've always enjoyed working with people over working at a computer. I was a server before this and there are a lot of similarities between the two jobs, just trying to make people comfortable and happy for the short time you're with them. I'd say that the stressful part is the time sensitive nature of the job. Airport agents can be really pushy about getting flights out early, and naturally passengers get anxious if there are any delays. I'm also stressed if we run out of supplies (food, water, paper towels) mid-flight since our resources in the air are limited, but greatly impact the customer's experience. There are so many variables in the job - destination, crew, and at my airline, your position within the crew - that it's hard to describe what's typical but I'll try... I show up at the airport, clear customs if I'm flying to the US, report for duty at the gate 50 minutes before the flight departs to meet the crew. We complete the aircraft security checks on emergency equipment and then have a briefing in which we discuss hypothetical emergency situations and how we would handle them, as well as the flight time, weather, anticipated turbulence, etc. After that it's boarding, and if you've ever flown before you'll have seen the rest; safety demonstration, service, clean-up, landing and deplaning. While you guys go collect your baggage we clean the plane and head home or to the hotel. If there have been any illnesses on board we have to file some paperwork but otherwise once you step off the plane you can dust off your hands and walk away from the day. That's one of the things I love about the job - it doesn't follow you home, which means once I walk in the door I can put the uniform away and just be me!