Suicide Hotline Manager

Suicide Hotline Manager

Suicide Hotline Manager

CantSay, US

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I supervise and train telephone operators for a suicide hotline. In addition to answering phones myself, I am also available when questions about protocol come up or if a phone operator is having trouble dealing with the emotions being expressed by a caller. Like many non-profits, we are now in danger of being shut down because of budget cuts.

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Last Answer on June 20, 2013

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Why do you think suicide rates vary so much by culture, even in first-world countries? Like South Korea has a 2.5x higher suicide rate than does the US. Is it simply that it's not as stigmatized in other places?

Asked by BarbaroGlue over 11 years ago

I think a number of factors go into play.  For one thing, suicide rates are higher in areas of economic and political crisis.  For example, Greece used to have the lowest suicide rate in Europe, but since the financial collapse, it has had one of the highest.  Probably another consideration is the availability of mental health care and crisis intervention, which is pretty weak in most countries.  Additionally, in more interdependent cultures, it is hard to acknowledge personal needs when the normative value is on preserving balance within the social circle. 

What stage of suicide are most callers experiencing when they decide to call in? Are they typically just having suicidal thoughts, are they literally on the brink, or somewhere in between?

Asked by Michael almost 13 years ago

Our preventative nature often comes out in that callers reach out to us before reaching a high-risk mindset. They use us to blow off steam, to find someone who cares, to get a referral for a mental health professional. We certainly have callers who express suicidal thoughts or seem in imminent danger, but we are also very open to callers who simply need to have a conversation about the stresses and heartaches they are experiencing.

How are your operators instructed to handle situations like when a caller is literally standing on the ledge of a roof?

Asked by ToryArlana almost 13 years ago

We will do our best to emotionally support the caller, to help them not feel alone. We will even offer to call an ambulance if there is a potential emergency. We will not stay on the phone, though, if it seems the callers is in the process of hurting themselves. It is important that callers understand that we are not there to listen to them kill themselves, but rather give them every chance to talk about their emotions and connect with a human being during a terrible time.

You mentioned you were in a non-profit organization--where does your funding come from?

Asked by veroniche almost 13 years ago

We have local and state funding as well as private donors. Honestly, I don't know much about that part of our organization.

Assuming your team has a number of recurrent callers, do these callers form a bond with a particular representative and ask for him or her with each call?

Asked by Sarah1984 almost 13 years ago

Our service is completely anonymous for both the callers and the operators. Callers should feel they can speak to any operator and receive the same level of service. We do our best to be emotionally supportive of callers without forming individual bonds.

Not to sound heartless but is there any statistical research that shows that having a suicide hotline actually lowers the rate of suicide? It *seems* like a good social service to have, but I'm curious as to how much it helps, if at all.

Asked by B-ian over 11 years ago

Honestly, I don't know about that beyond anecdotal evidence.

Have you ever felt like you were unequipped to deal with a caller - maybe because their personality, life experiences, or specific emotional concerns were difficult to relate to for you? Is there a protocol for a situation like this - are you allowed to refer a caller to another hotline worker who may be a better match for their specific situation?

Asked by EdnaKrabappel almost 13 years ago

It isn't necessarily to be able to relate to a caller to provide emotional support. In fact it's better if you can listen from an objective standpoint. It can be difficult to keep focused on the person you're speaking with if your own stuff is coming up.