Pick-Up Coach

Pick-Up Coach

Xander

Hollywood, CA

Male, 32

I was a practitioner of Pick-Up Arts, as taught through numerous books, classes, and online forums. Now I help legions of average, frustrated chumps learn how to interact with women and land the dates and relationships they've always wanted.

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Last Answer on July 12, 2013

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Have you ever met or worked with Neil Strauss, Mystery, or any of the other well-known guys from The Game?

Asked by Marcus over 13 years ago

I know Neil and have met and been out with Mystery on many occasions. I've met virtually all of the characters in The Game. Haven't worked with any of them although I did work for the biggest PUA company on an independent project for a time in exchange for some coaching.

Aren't you the same Xander that was a Nightclub Promoter? How many jobs have you had?!?

Asked by MrPlaneDick about 12 years ago

Shhhhhh

How many dates should there be before sex? (I'm 22, btw).

Asked by cantsaysorry! over 12 years ago

Unclear if you are a guy or girl. If you are a guy...."should" is a dangerous word. If she senses too much of an expectation of sex it'll turn her off. So you can't show it. It should be (or at least seem) organic. You're 22 and most 22 year olds don't go on what would qualify as a date anyway. Bottom line, if you haven't slept with a girl in a relatively short amount of time (a month or so) cut your losses and move on. It ain't happening. If you are a girl...I'm probably not qualified to answer.