Pick-Up Coach

Pick-Up Coach

Xander

Hollywood, CA

Male, 32

I was a practitioner of Pick-Up Arts, as taught through numerous books, classes, and online forums. Now I help legions of average, frustrated chumps learn how to interact with women and land the dates and relationships they've always wanted.

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Last Answer on July 12, 2013

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Is the mode one approach the best?

Asked by sexymofo about 13 years ago

Never heard of it

Why is Bed Bath & Beyond and good place to meet women? What's a good opening line in that kind of place?

Asked by subzer0 over 14 years ago

There are always attractive women there and perhaps there's something to the "nesting" aspect of the place. Lines are overrated. There's nothing wrong with "Hey I know this is a pretty random place to do this but I want to meet you. I'm Xander." If you want to get cute you could also ask "Hey do you know where they sell blankets in here?"

How many dates should there be before sex? (I'm 22, btw).

Asked by cantsaysorry! over 13 years ago

Unclear if you are a guy or girl. If you are a guy...."should" is a dangerous word. If she senses too much of an expectation of sex it'll turn her off. So you can't show it. It should be (or at least seem) organic. You're 22 and most 22 year olds don't go on what would qualify as a date anyway. Bottom line, if you haven't slept with a girl in a relatively short amount of time (a month or so) cut your losses and move on. It ain't happening. If you are a girl...I'm probably not qualified to answer.