Pick-Up Coach

Pick-Up Coach

Xander

Hollywood, CA

Male, 32

I was a practitioner of Pick-Up Arts, as taught through numerous books, classes, and online forums. Now I help legions of average, frustrated chumps learn how to interact with women and land the dates and relationships they've always wanted.

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Last Answer on July 12, 2013

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Aren't you the same Xander that was a Nightclub Promoter? How many jobs have you had?!?

Asked by MrPlaneDick almost 11 years ago

Shhhhhh

Is the mode one approach the best?

Asked by sexymofo almost 11 years ago

Never heard of it

How many dates should there be before sex? (I'm 22, btw).

Asked by cantsaysorry! about 11 years ago

Unclear if you are a guy or girl. If you are a guy...."should" is a dangerous word. If she senses too much of an expectation of sex it'll turn her off. So you can't show it. It should be (or at least seem) organic. You're 22 and most 22 year olds don't go on what would qualify as a date anyway. Bottom line, if you haven't slept with a girl in a relatively short amount of time (a month or so) cut your losses and move on. It ain't happening. If you are a girl...I'm probably not qualified to answer.