Day Care Provider

Day Care Provider

Miss DayCare

Charlotte, NC

Female, 30

I work in a highly respected, franchised Day Care Provider. I have taught in Toddler classrooms as well as Pre-Kindegarten classrooms. It's a wonderful and rewarding profession and I love every minute of it. I have become friends with many of my parents and they all ask questions which is why I want to open a dialogue here so I can be as honest and open as possible about your most prized posession's early childhood education and what really goes on in the classrooms and hallways!

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Last Answer on October 19, 2012

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How tech-savvy are pre-K kids? Has your teaching had to change because they’re all familiar with iPads and the Internet?

Asked by aaron5 almost 14 years ago

It's truly amazing how tech savvy these kids are. My teaching most certainly had to change when younger kids started getting more interested in computers and electronic personal devices (which we don't allow. but we have four desktop computers with wireless internet connection). Again, my cirriculum allows for technical training on the computer with various kid friendly programs, and they are allowed to access it during their free play times as well. Most of the kids have ipod touch, iphones, or an ipad so even the training that the lesson plans offer can be a bit remedial for them!

What's some of the most extreme behavior you've seen from overly protective or neurotic parents?

Asked by Kirbo82 almost 14 years ago

I've dealt with pretty much everything to a mom coming in every hour on the hour to make sure her child who was potty training got her chance to sit on the toilet (and she did with or without her mother being there). Parents would come in at lunch time to sit with their kids while they ate. I've even had a mom (it's usually the mothers) accost me at a restaurant on a weekend day because she didn't feel her son was getting enough attention at school...mind you this mother was a stay at home mom with only one child and he was in our school mon through fri 7 AM to 6 PM....I'm thinking he wasn't getting enough attention at home but i'm not a licensed psychologist....When I was in an infant classroom I had a mother come in and stay with her baby almost all day and not allow us to build a relationship with her daughter so when we went to go near her the baby would scream and the mom would blame us because we weren't acceptable caregivers and didn't know how to act around her daughter. I do welcome over protective parents and accept their neurosis to an extent, but when it interferes with my job and my classroom, I need to have an open and honest conversation with them usually with a director present so it's documented. I've found that an open dialogue is key with these types of parents and they tend to back off and trust you a bit more once everything is out in the open....this is only the tip of the iceberg....I could write a book with this question alone!

Do most of the people you work with have kids of their own? Does working at a day care center help make someone a better parent to their own kids?

Asked by slowgrind almost 14 years ago

It's pretty equal between the amount of teachers that have kids and those that don't. it definitely helps if you do have kids and need daycare because then you get it at a pretty good deal! I worked at daycare centers for a few years before i had my daughter, and it didn't make me a better parent, but definitely more patient with her. And now being a parent, so of the parents of my kids offer some pretty good advice on things that I would have never thought of on my own. It doesn't make someone a better parent, but it certainly does have its resources you can use.

What are the key red flags I should look for when looking into day care centers?

Asked by Soleil almost 14 years ago

Look at the cleanliness of the facility and the rooms, also when walking around the school peek into other classrooms and not just the ones that your child(ren) will be in. See what the teachers are doing, are they interacting with the kids or just sitting there? Ask to see when the kids play outside and how interactive the instructors are with them. We shouldn't be just sitting on the ground yelling at the kids when someone does something wrong. We should be running around, playing tag, pushing them on a swing, etc....Another big one is if there is "outside" food in the rooms (we aren't supposed to have any outside food or drinks in the room), and you would be surprised at what some teacher leave out....I was coming back from lunch and one of my co workers had a bag of peanuts out during the kids' nap! Also, see if the center has a reference list of parents you can call to see how they like the school. Parents put themselves on it and it's a mix of positive and negative reviews so you can get answers to questions you may not be comfortable asking the director

Can you see personality and socialization traits, like leader-vs-follower tendencies, developing in children that young?

Asked by Lorax almost 14 years ago

That's something that I am so interested in and look for in every class I teach. You most definitely see which ones are more introverted and which are more social. Sometime they surprise you though, the most attached toddler can blossom at three or four and become a totally different person so it's really fascinating to see them go on that journey of self discovery and finding who they are.

Are most day care centers kept under video surveillance nowadays?

Asked by aaron5 almost 14 years ago

I have only worked at one that had video surveillance, and quite frankly it doesn't put the teachers at ease that they are there. It was a very "big brother" feeling. That was about 8 years ago and the three places I have worked since then have not had cameras.

If a parent is chronically late in picking up his or her kid, what can you do besides insisting they arrive on time?

Asked by Twotwotwo almost 14 years ago

There's really not much you can do. There are centers that have a policy that for each minute they are late after closing time, they owe one dollar. Unfortunately, that doesn't deter parents from being late, they just hand you cash when they walk in to pick up their child. If you have a chronically late parent, and you have to stay past close, you just have to grin and bear it and wait for that child to graduate to the next classroom so that parent can become another teacher's problem!